Queen's Stud Groom Reveals Intimate Moments with Late Monarch

Terry Pendry, Queen Elizabeth II's longtime riding companion, shares personal memories of their 28-year relationship, offering a glimpse into the late monarch's private life and personality.

September 6 2024, 06:38 PM  •  261 views

Queen's Stud Groom Reveals Intimate Moments with Late Monarch

Terry Pendry, the Queen's stud groom for over 28 years, has shared intimate details of his relationship with the late monarch, revealing a side of her rarely seen by the public. In a recent podcast interview, Pendry offered a glimpse into the Queen's private life, highlighting her humor, strength, and down-to-earth nature.

Pendry's association with the royal family began in 1974 when he joined the Household Cavalry. His first encounter with the Queen occurred shortly after, during her visit to the Knightsbridge riding school. Describing her as "radiant," Pendry recounted how her presence made him feel "7ft tall."

Their shared passion for horses formed the foundation of their enduring friendship. As the Queen's stud groom, Pendry accompanied her on daily rides, initially on horses and later on her beloved pony, Emma. He noted the Queen's exceptional eye for racehorses, jokingly suggesting she could have been "a brilliant racing trainer" if not for her royal duties.

Pendry shared several poignant moments from their time together. On one Armistice Day, the Queen confided in him about two RAF servicemen she was remembering during the two-minute silence. This interaction showcased her deep connection to the nation's history and her personal experiences during wartime.

"You have a lunchtime engagement, don't you?" "Yes, Mummy, but I can cancel it." "No, no, off you go – you're not required yet."

The Queen on her mother's passing

The Queen's resilience was evident in her response to personal loss. Following the Queen Mother's passing in 2002, Pendry recalled how the monarch resumed her riding routine the following Monday, demonstrating what he described as an "inner power."

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Pendry also highlighted the Queen's "wicked sense of humor," recounting instances where she shared jokes and performed impressions. This playful side contrasted sharply with her public persona, offering a more rounded view of the late monarch.

The Queen's relationships with other staff members were similarly warm. Richard Griffin, her former protection officer, shared anecdotes of her wit and ability to play along with humorous situations. Angela Kelly, her right-hand woman, was reportedly so close that the Queen once remarked they "could be sisters."

As the Queen aged, Pendry adapted to her changing needs, adding steps to her riding block and eventually walking beside her during rides. Their final ride together took place on July 18, 2022, less than two months before her passing. In their last interaction, the Queen playfully chided Pendry for mentioning her age, showcasing her humor even in her final days.

Pendry played a touching role in the Queen's funeral procession, leading her pony Emma along the Long Walk at Windsor Castle. He had thoughtfully draped one of the Queen's favorite Hermès scarves over Emma's saddle, a final tribute to their shared passion.

Reflecting on their relationship, Pendry described the Queen as "more like a mum than anything else," emphasizing the privilege of serving "such a wonderful, wonderful lady." His account provides a touching insight into the private life of one of history's most public figures, revealing the human side of a monarch who dedicated her life to duty and service.