Young cancer survivor faces hidden costs of preserving future family dreams
A teenʼs cancer battle led to unexpected fertility preservation costs that nobody warned him about. His story shows how medical bills can affect young cancer survivors long after treatment ends
Tom Stott discovered a concerning lump during his sixth-form studies (while dreaming about RAF career) The discovery led to a life-altering diagnosis: testicular cancer at just seventeen years old.
The medical team rushed him into discussions about fertility preservation - something no teen expects to face. “I was sitting in a fertility clinic with my dad just a week after diagnosis; everything felt un-real“ His thoughts were focused on survival rather than future planning or costs
The treatment journey wasnt easy: first came chemo at a teen-friendly ward in Nottinghamʼs City Hospital (which had a common room and take-out food options); then about 3 years later another tumor appeared in his pelvis This time he ended up at an adult ward - quite different from his first experience
A shock came when he got a £200 bill for sperm storage; no warning no previous info just a pay-or-else notice The bill arrived while he was working his first post-cancer job: it wasnt just about money but about facing his past again
- Different UK regions have different storage funding rules
- Annual fees can reach £350
- Storage periods vary from 5 to 10 years
- IVF costs arent always NHS-funded
Today Tom works as a regional account manager for marine equipment - a career path far from his original RAF plans Heʼs in a long-term relationship thats weathered many ups-and-downs including tough talks about future family planning
His advocacy work helped create change: the hospital now sends two-year warning letters about storage fees But he believes more needs to happen - young cancer survivors shouldnt pay extra for keeping their family dreams alive; its a cost that comes after theyʼve already fought so hard